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Star power is like many other things: you know it when you see it. But how can you ensure that people are seeing you as a power player?
A recent Forbes article discusses just that: how to own a room when you first walk in, how to emanate confidence — in other words, how to increase your “star” power. The author, Rob Asghar, provides several tips on how the common man can help himself come across like the President and CEO.
His first suggestion is to take an acting class. Learning to act can help timid or humble businessmen and women express themselves outwardly, displaying the positive aspects of their persona hidden by doubt or insecurity. This ability, Asghar argues, can go a long way to enhance and promote a career.
Next he says, is to try an improvisation class. Forcing yourself outside your comfort zone, improvisation can help you think on your feet, extemporaneously. Asghar writes that you’ll thank yourself for it the next time you have a high stakes job interview, sales presentation, or earnings call.
Perfecting the pause is another skill, Asghar argues, that can help you seem like all-star. He writes that the ability to sit silently and contemplate, during a meeting or a conversation, will improve your presence dramatically from using space holders like “um.”
Asghar’s next tip is to “ask for what you want.” Don’t be passive. It’s not rude to assert yourself to get what you want; it’s what successful people have been doing for years.
And don’t apologize or make excuses – stars don’t do that. If they’re late, you wait.
Perhaps his most important tip is to trust yourself. Act on your instincts, Asghar writes, because they’ve been honed over mankind’s many lifetimes to steer us in the right direction. Having the confidence to act on a gut feeling is one of the biggest assets of a star.
Overall, there is one comprehensive theme when it comes to star power, according to the article. It is not so much about branding yourself with your words or work, it’s about managing your own energy. If you can do that, Asghar says, you’re one giant step closer to being viewed as a star.
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